I have been through this once and now I just had the second heartbreak. In my first heartbreak, I think I am one of those girls who went to Camp Sawi. Today, I feel like I am an expert on the matter. You see, upon learning the facts you have two options: first, to cry and; second,to divert that energy into something productive. In my past posts, I have been discussing how I am doing this.
The real questions in a heartbreak are- why are you crying because someone left you? (you are mean) Haven't you seen the signs? (No it came as a shock) Did you turn a blind eye on all the things that tell you he does not love you anymore? (I guess) What just happened? (women happened) Is something wrong with you? Can't you work it out? (No you cannot)
Overwhelming questions that has no plausible answers. I tried digging for answers but I failed. To this day, I realized maybe there are just no answers to questions why a love can end. It just happens. They just stop.
What to do?
Look within yourself. Why are you hurt? It is because you are not strong enough. Nobody will help you but you alone. So wipe your tears, stand up and smile. You go find something better to do than crying your eyes out. You will feel more pain by dwelling in the pain. Find an activity where your energy for crying can be released. Camp Sawi is a great place to do yoga, run, and learn how to bake. However, it is fictional so I guess you find a place where you can do those!
If you read this in entirety I want to hug you and push you off the cliff. Strength comes from within so go and spread your wings.
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