MARRIED LIFE

Reading the nth number of annulment and declaration of nullity of marriage cases. And I fell out of love from love because these are the people who loved and are now proving that it never existed. Once in their lives they proved it to the world only to deny such. They all lied to themselves and created make-believe fantasy. Why? Am I seeing the future me? because aren't we all the same. I am sure that every person ventured for the search of true love and some were lucky enough to get married. These cases shook me. Somehow, love cannot move the mountains and is not forever. The songs were wrong.

From what I read, the main reason couples fight is money- the husband not having a job and the wife nagging him about not having a job, or the wife is the breadwinner and the husband is a drunk, womanizer and gambler. So because they were unsuccessful in satisfying the other's ego they opt to separate and for some, remarry.

I think it is pointless. For the men who desire a lot of women,unsatisfied of one, why? For sex? Oh I remember Eleven Minutes by P. Coelho- my apologies for insinuating that. In the novel, the prostitute learned that the husbands have mistresses to have someone to talk to. As experienced by many, wives become nagging bitches on the latter part of married life and husbands flee. They lose the game when they do because they refuse to communicate. They forget the reasons why and how the fell in love, which brought the color in their lives. They think that the other is a mind reader to know and do exactly what they want. And it all stops when they give up. Either, they realize that it did not exist and they only made it exist or, they got tired.

What is it really? Well, I will choose not to confuse my life with the lives of other people. But I will learn.